Many of us growing up with this idea that we need to “win,” to “succeed,” to “become great.” What does that all mean and how can we measure greatness? Positive psychologist Martin Seligman has researched on the various ways we live – noting that many of us may live “pleasant” or “good” lives, but never quite achieve a deeply satisfying and fulfilling life. When we get too narrowly focused on a goal (aka said notion of “greatness”), we end up missing the very things that could help us achieve true greatness – with a deep sense of accomplishment and impact. Looking outside ourselves can push us even further.
Understand people
Simon Sinek offers another insightful talk on how people miss out on a whole lot – opportunity, achievement, greatness – when they ignore the very thing that lets us achieve: other people. A generous spirit goes a long way to connect, relate, and achieve.
It’s not all about you. That is the key to greatness.
What is fulfilling to the Jones is not what might make you fulfilled. Seriously, no one cares if you are driving a Subaru or a Lexus. No one cares if your home is 3,600 feet or 4,000. And if they do, that’s your issue for caring. Ready to step off the hamster wheel or toss away the golden handcuffs? People may freak out and ask you, “are you sure?” and might give you 100 reasons why it’s not good idea, but 9 out of 10 times, they’re rather envious of your courage. (N.B.: if they have a valid point…aka selling all your worldly possessions to join the acrobatic circus when you have no experience might warrant some forethought.)
5. Get over yourself
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